My sympathies to LW; it may be so hard to avoid patterns that are unproductive.
Nowhere inside her page was SLAP explicit about just what she wanted. She stated she desired ‘emotional connection’, but, beyond that, did not spell out exactly exactly what this might appear to be or feel to her e.g. A loving, monogamously committed relationship that is long-term. I might think she requires the courage to look at by herself to see exactly what she actually hopes for–especially whether it’s kids, as of this belated phase. This won’t suggest telling herself she is a failure about it and strategising about how to give herself the best shot at it if she doesn’t get it; it rather means being upfront with herself.
After which. She should place it on her profile, certainly? Continue reading Dating Apps—And the Men On Them—Are Making Her Miserable. It Is Loneliness Even Even Worse?