Exactly why is it that after i will be being truly bitch, aka tender meets ignoring guys that i’ve no curiosity about venturing out with once again, guys won’t leave me personally alone? Personally I think like its bad karmic energy but We additionally feel just like there is nothing owed to anybody after 1 date, I shouldn’t need certainly to split up with some guy that i will be maybe not dating.
Evan is i’m all over this!
It’s because they’re perhaps perhaps not great dudes. Thus you didn’t let them have a second date.
Julia—I’m simply guessing right here, but since I have have the exact same issue we figured i’d react lol.
We that that the only thing that is happening the following is that with males you’re NOT enthusiastic about, you might be exuding an alternate form of energy…. Possibly one that’s care-free, liberated to be your self, maybe perhaps not needy, maybe perhaps not clingy, easy-going, etc, because you’re NOT thinking about these dudes.
Utilizing the dudes you are looking at, perhaps you’re behaving only a little differently. Also subtly? Perhaps possibly you’re more nervous whether they will call you back for a 2nd date, and maybe that vibe is seeping through your pores and they are sensing it…even if only subconsciously around them, trying hard to impress them, don’t want to offend, hiding your TRUE self instead of just letting your natural radiance shine, you are actually worried/invested in.
Idk…this is simply my GUESS. I have a problem with this too because it can feel just like some body is playing a cruel laugh lol! However it ended up being this season in me(that I have ZERO interest in whatsoever), and how I act around guys who I’m crushing on real hard, and it was then that I realized: “BINGO that I started to really think about how I act around guys who are interested. ” The men I’m NOT enthusiastic about are becoming a version that is different of compared to people that I WILL BE thinking about! Continue reading Do Men Like Bitches Or Nice Girls In Dating?